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Me before kdramas
me after kdramas
sevanna and I
All I want to do is go on road trips and have sex
I have soul, but not enough Seoul
It’s common when one gets absorbed into something for it to creep into your daily life. Being in the throws of yet another Kdrama, I notice the slow shuffle of my routines change to reflect my Yong Do- preoccupied mind. But my life isn’t a kdrama. There are similarities, sure (aside from the obvious mega Korean class warfare) but when it comes down to it- the problem begins with me.
Let me back up, at work we took a test once that reveals your personality type. How you manage, learn, teach, react. I am an accomodater. I accomodate. Which is, not surprising.
I often base my decisions off what I think others would like do to. I try to be flexible with my schedule if it means that it would work out for someone else. I always felt that this was sincere quality of mine, that it showed my selfless side. And I’ve realized that it does- I lose myself.
I was told once that I accommodate too much. This was a few years ago when things ended with someone I cared about a lot. That’s when I first realized how accommodate is a double-edged sword.
So, back to Korea! Cha Eun Sang never backs away from what she thinks is right. Even though she likes Kim Tan, AND HE LIKES HER BACK, she does not try to fit a relationship into her life until circumstances are more allowing. Even though she is the daughter of a housemaid, she does not look down on herself or her family. She does these things and is sincere, selfless, and genuine.
Sincere, selfless, genuine.
"It turns out procrastination is not typically a function of laziness, apathy or work ethic as it is often regarded to be. It’s a neurotic self-defense behavior that develops to protect a person’s sense of self-worth.
You see, procrastinators tend to be people who have, for whatever reason, developed to perceive an unusually strong association between their performance and their value as a person. This makes failure or criticism disproportionately painful, which leads naturally to hesitancy when it comes to the prospect of doing anything that reflects their ability — which is pretty much everything."
oh. yeah, wow.
Kids today won’t ever know the struggle of downloading a song from Limewire and getting Bill Clinton
"If someday the moon calls you by your name don’t be surprised,
because every night I tell her about you."
David Mitchell is my spirit animal
I always feel like I should apologize for my personal posts, but then I realize that I have Ultimate Blog Power. I can write an essay about how sad I am and then post ten pictures of dogs rollerblading. You can’t stop me.